Read Matthew 25.1-13
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According to the study notes in the ESV Bible, "it was the Jewish marriage custom for the groom and his
friends to heave his home and proceed to the home of the bride, where the marriage ceremony was
conducted, often at night. After this, the entire wedding party returned to the groom's home for a celebratory
banquet."
It's not too hard, is it, to see the direct correlation between this parable which Jesus tells and the imagery
of the Lord as groom and His Church as bride. The Lord (groom) comes to the home of the Church (bride)
to take the Church to the great heavenly banquet, at the end of the age. And the admonition is for all those
joined to the fellowship of the Bride of Christ to have their lamps ready for the journey out to meet the Lord
at his arrival.
These lamps mentioned were like torches, used for nighttime journeys. They required refilling with oil, and it
was expected that each person would keep enough oil with them to keep their torch lit for their journey. So
it is with each of us as we stay prepared for the arrival of the Lord. Each of us has a personal responsibility to
be prepared through study of the Word, worship, prayer, and any of the other spiritual disciplines which have
marked the lives of Jesus' disciples from the very beginning. While we are definitely called to do these things
together with other brothers and sisters in Christ, and to encourage one another, none of us can lean on the
actions of another when it comes to being prepared. We do not do discipleship by osmosis!!
Think about the ways you may have left the work of discipleship to "the professionals", rather than taking an
active role in developing your own discipleship. Ask God both for forgiveness in presuming on His grace and
for the resolve to begin today a new commitment to follow Jesus with your whole self.